TIWC and I

By Marion Ko

I became a member of the Taipei International Women's Club (TIWC), a prestigious charity organization, in 1969. With more than half of its 400 or more members being foreigners, either wives of diplomats or executives, teachers or career women from as many as 30 countries of their origin. TIWC presented an aura of awe and excitement to everyone involved not precluding new comers. My first TIWC general meeting left roe feeling like I was a part of the United Nations.

Imagine Taiwan 30 years ago, chaos ruled in the aftermath of the Second World War. After Chiang Kai Shek and his military took over Taiwan and imposed Martial Law, life became very difficult for many. At that time, the National Health Insurance and the Social Welfare Programs were non existent. Taiwan was considered an under-developed country that depended heavily upon various subsidies from the United States.

Growing up in such a devastating environment, I immersed myself in books and movies to escape the harsh reality of life. I became interested in learning about other countries, specifically Japan and the United States, which prompted me to major in Foreign Literature at the National Taiwan University. After marrying Dr. Hsian-Chong Ko who become a general surgeon and proffesor of surgery and later, the commissioner of Public Health, Professor Emeritus. I was grounded in the life of society women. Aside from raising two young sons, I also become very active in local charities.

TIWC for me was the American society. It was a privilege to be a part of this selective organization and sharing information with other TIWC members without having to go abroad.

Admission was not easy. Two conditions needed to be met in order to become a member of TIWC: (1) recommendations must come from two members, (2) applicants must give an oral introduction in English at the New Members Tea party. Upon admission, new members were required to join one or more working committee to further charity work. I learned quickly that foreign ladies more so than Taiwanese women of social standing tended to devote their time and effort to support the activities of local charities. Through voluntary participation and cooperation, these ladies were able to share experiences and their wealth of resources with one another. This devotion deterred many from being simply spectators.

As a doctor's wife, I thought it was proper to join the Social Services Committee, the largest working comittee with 40 to 50 members, 5 of which were Taiwanese. It was frequently said that the Ways and Means Committee made money and the Social Services Committee would spend the money. When I first joined this committee, I certainly did not foresee that it would be a commitment that would last twenty years. I began by serving as vice-chairperson and interpreter for more than 10 years, and accepted the position of chairperson in 1989.

If TIWC was like the American society then the Social Services Committee was like a corporation. My colleagues' capabilities, energy and creativity constantly amazed me. The Social Services Committee had its own secretary and treasurer. Each month, the secretary would produce and send the minutes and agenda to each committee member. During meetings, regulations and special projects would be discussed, followed by the budget report by the treasurer. We also scheduled many visits such as to orphanages, hospitals, old people's homes, school for the blind, juvenile detention center, the Salvation Army and St. Joseph's Home for the poor.

The unwritten law of the Social Services Committee was, (1) never make cash donation, which tends to easily be misused. We would donate items such as physical therapy equipment, medical machines, wheelchairs and vehicles. (2) These beneficiaries were living in Taipei or in the vicinity, the idea was to contribute funds where we raised the funds. Each visit became like a field study and social gathering combined.

During my twenty years of history with the TTWC. each week passed by quickly filled with fun, exciting, and meaningful activities. There were factfinding luncheons with speakers, dinner parties with live performances, and open houses held at famous Taiwanese personalities' mansions. I made many lasting friendships through my involvement, and had a clearer concept of what voluntary participation meant. I grew from being a passive person to a positive- thinking woman. I was also able to polish my English and Japanese language skills by listening to the ICRT radio station, and subscribed to the China Post and Newsweek.

Overall, my footprint on the TIWC road map was a small one, but it was sweet and unforgettable. I am immensely proud of what I have accomplished for this organization.

These are some unforgettable moments that I would like to share with you.

In 1974, when the Bandage Rolling group, a subcommittee of the Social Services Committee, was searching for a work place for their volunteers. I was one of the key persons instrumental in having it stationed at the liipei Municipal Jen-Ai Hospital. To this day, the Bandage Rolling group still functions as a liaison for the rest of the TIWC members in selling raffle tickets or collecting donations for fundraising.

In 1975, the English Conversation Tea members prepared a skit at the Chinese New Year celebration during which we talked and sang in English, Everyone felt rejuvenated and fearless to he on the stage. It was silly but it was so much fun.

In 1978, I was the publicity chairperson for TIWC's final traditional bazaar, which was sponsored by various embassies, I learned how to pass information to the press and maintain good relations with reporters.

In 1989, I accepted the position of the Social Services Committee chairperson, with the support of a harmonious board and devoten committee members, it marked the year of meeting challenges and furthering personal growth.

In 1992, I served on the committee designated to coordinate the 40th anniversary celebration of TIWC. It was an epochal event to present to the public as well as its members the importance of TIWC role in the society and its achievement. I assisted in the preparations of this event by helping to collect and edit photographs of historic scenes on the bulletin board in the hall. More importantly to note was that all committee members once again worked as a team to make that occasion a huge success.

I am delighted and honored to be a TIWC member. My experiences from being a TIWC member have enriched my life greatly. Joining this organization has allowed me to witness its most prosperous days as a charity organization, help raised a tremendous sums of funds, and allocated them to the less fortunate. I have made great friends with whom I now stay in touch by e-mail.

Thank you

 

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